Comments on: Lose ‘em how ya got ‘em http://www.beautifulnothot.com/2008/06/06/lose-%e2%80%98em-how-ya-got-%e2%80%98em/ Thu, 20 Nov 2008 10:27:35 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.0.4 by: Veronica http://www.beautifulnothot.com/2008/06/06/lose-%e2%80%98em-how-ya-got-%e2%80%98em/#comment-5269 Mon, 16 Jun 2008 14:25:47 +0000 http://www.beautifulnothot.com/2008/06/06/lose-%e2%80%98em-how-ya-got-%e2%80%98em/#comment-5269 that's usually what they say but it doesn't hold 100% true. I hope that it all works out for you. As long as you keep finding things, you are going to keep looking. My brother once said though that it's not snooping it's investigating. You're investigating the person you are with and if you didn't find aynthing, you'd eventually stop looking. I say it all the time that people have to prove that they can be trusted. <em>You just summed up my entire thought process right here.  There has to be an end in sight; there just has to.</em> that’s usually what they say but it doesn’t hold 100% true.

I hope that it all works out for you.

As long as you keep finding things, you are going to keep looking. My brother once said though that it’s not snooping it’s investigating. You’re investigating the person you are with and if you didn’t find aynthing, you’d eventually stop looking.

I say it all the time that people have to prove that they can be trusted.

You just summed up my entire thought process right here.  There has to be an end in sight; there just has to.

]]> by: juli http://www.beautifulnothot.com/2008/06/06/lose-%e2%80%98em-how-ya-got-%e2%80%98em/#comment-5260 Mon, 16 Jun 2008 03:14:05 +0000 http://www.beautifulnothot.com/2008/06/06/lose-%e2%80%98em-how-ya-got-%e2%80%98em/#comment-5260 Girl I hope it doesn't go down like that. I just lost the love of my life.. 2 wks before our wedding.. found out he f*cked anther woman. And then a week later had a different woman show up at my house that he had been seeing for months. We have a 6 month old daughter and I'm 14wks pregnant... I checked his phone and emails for the first year. NEver found anything. So I began to trust him. Now turns out he has been screwing women all around town and I never knew. He ALWAYS accounted for any time he wasn't with me or at work. I TRUSTED. It got me nothing. Being a single mother of 4. I wish I would have trusted my gut from day one. <em>Juli!!! I am beyond shocked!!!  I'm so sorry honey *big hugs*  </em><em>I'm trying not to be the person that checks and checks and checks and just trusts, but then what happens when I don't? Is this the way love is supposed to go? I don't believe that it is.</em> Girl I hope it doesn’t go down like that. I just lost the love of my life.. 2 wks before our wedding.. found out he f*cked anther woman. And then a week later had a different woman show up at my house that he had been seeing for months. We have a 6 month old daughter and I’m 14wks pregnant… I checked his phone and emails for the first year. NEver found anything. So I began to trust him. Now turns out he has been screwing women all around town and I never knew. He ALWAYS accounted for any time he wasn’t with me or at work. I TRUSTED. It got me nothing. Being a single mother of 4. I wish I would have trusted my gut from day one.

Juli!!! I am beyond shocked!!!  I’m so sorry honey *big hugs*  I’m trying not to be the person that checks and checks and checks and just trusts, but then what happens when I don’t? Is this the way love is supposed to go? I don’t believe that it is.

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